The Giver, Lois Lowry

 I only recognize the cover art on the middle picture.

I first read this book in the 6th grade, as it came HIGHLY recommended to me by a teacher or librarian. Apparently it was a brand new book, although at the time I had no clue. I don't think that even as an avid reader I paid much attention to books and release dates or when things came out. And if I hadn't checked the copyright, I don't think I would have realized that I read it when it was first published.

I was 12 when I read it. Fast forward 20.5 years later. And here's what I could remember:

It was disturbing.
Greyscale.
A girl the main character was friends with whom after they bathed the elderly together (as a volunteer-and yes the fact that 11 year olds were bathing nude elderly was part of the disturbing nature of the book for me) had a dream in which he was attempting to get his friend to get into a tub so he could bathe her. When he had to report this dream in the morning (as is required) he is issued a pill that curbs these feelings. When I was a bit older, remembering about this dream made me realize he'd probably had what we call "wet dreams" and the pill stopped this.
I remembered jobs being assigned and Birthmother was NOT a good one.
Families applied for children, and could apply twice-once for a girl and once for a boy.
I remember feeling....apprehensive as I read it.

Of course, I didn't know what "dystopian" society books were, or their aim, or WHY someone would write about such twisted messed up people. I kinda wish I had been warned and perhaps educated a little. Because it was NOT my favorite book of my childhood. I remembered only the weird embarrassing parts. But maybe if I knew what the genre was, I'd have not been so shocked. Anyhow, when I found out the movie is being released in August, I decided to do what I have been planning on doing for a long time. Re-read it as an adult. And WOW. Yeah, I remembered everything correctly, but I had FORGOTTEN some of the MOST disturbing practices. Such as the "Release" procedure. As an adult, I figured out pretty quickly what it was a euphemism for, but I know I didn't see it coming so clearly as a child.

Heralded as the "first" YA dystopian book (technically directed towards "middle-year readers") that spawned many others, it has hints of Orwell's 1984 and you can see how other books, Matched, Divergent, Uglies, etc have nods to Lowry's concepts. Basically in The Giver, the people of society has elected for the safety of all, to live in "Sameness." There are also no real feelings or emotions. They are closely monitored by speakers (although this isn't apparent until closer to the middle of the book) in their dwellings. They take a daily pill once puberty hits to quell natural sexual feelings. There is no physical touch except in the young Nurturing years. It is a crime to see another's naked body. Many things have been obsolete-fewer words and only those with precise meanings are allowed, animals are "mythical creatures" everything is predictable. You apply for a spouse if you want to, and then are assigned a spouse. But heavily implied, there is no physical relationship. They may apply for up to 2 children, one male one female. Population is strictly controlled, Birthmothers are trained shortly after they are 12 and then give 3 births in 3 years and transition to Laborer for an occupation. 50 children are born into the society each year. And I assume, since you read about Releasing Ceremonies for the Elderly that there are probably 50 releases per year in the community as well. Scientists create genetically superior embryos (this is implied) and I assume are artificially implanted into the birthmothers. Part of this Sameness is that the society is colorblind and 99.9% of the population  has eyes, although we have descriptions of both light and dark hair, both curly and straight. There is 1 person in society chosen to keep ALL the memories of everything past and present so that no one in society has to bear the burden of knowing what pain is, or love or joy or sorrow or loneliness. Basically, they live like Adam and Eve before partaking of the forbidden fruit and learning the difference between good and bad. These people have opted NOT to have a choice for fear that someone might choose wrong. Of course, that goes back to the societies beginning and the current population isn't even aware that anything different ever happened. Every December there are Ceremonies for children. All the babies born that year who are sleeping well through the night and thriving, are Newchildren, considered 1 and placed with their families and given a name. Then at each age after that, there are new things given. For instance, 3s and 4s have jackets that fasten in the back where they have to rely on others to help them and to help others. When they get older, I can't remember which age, they get a coat that buttons in the front to become independent. At 8 they start doing required volunteer time and they can choose where to do this. At 9 they receive a bicycle (everyone rides bicycles in this society). At 12 they are given their Assignment-their vocation they will be training for and are considered adults. Jonas is chosen to become the Receiver of Memories. And say good-bye to innocents and childhood and everything else. The more he learns, the more he realizes that his society is not functioning right. That yes, it might be SAFER, but it is not right or fair or really worth anything if you can't love or see color or experience things.

Incredible read as an adult. Apparently, there are 4 books, although only 1 is a direct sequel (apparently just published in 2012?) and I'm going to read them all now. Of course.

But with everything in stark memory, I think I am going to be VERY disappointed in the movie. All based on the trailer you can see discrepancies. For instance: The main character, Jonas, in the book is turning 12. 13 at the end of the book. Jonas is being portrayed by an actor in his 20s? And his female friend, Fiona is supposed to be the same age and the actress is obviously too developed to be that age. I forgot to mention that somehow, the quality of being a Giver or Receiver of memory is linked with having light colored eyes. The actor who plays Jonas does not have light eyes. Or even light eye colored contacts which are super easy to acquire these days. Taylor Swift is in the movie, but now she's the least of my concerns. Especially since her character only exists in the story as a memory that The Giver has. Super minor role. But based on the trailer, this is a super high tech society. The book did not imply this at all. In the movie, bicycles are not used, but high tech scooter bike like things. Everyone is dressed the same according to role and position in society, but the movie doesn't do this either. Things are said that are at best implied by the book and at worst added in completely. And a closing seen where Jonas (on the run with a toddler) is zapped up in an airplane alien style. The closing scene in the book is Jonas (on the run with a toddler) riding a sled down a hill into the presence of a society he only hoped was there. Not even Meryle Streep's presence can make up for the fact that this is going to be one of the worst film adaptations ever.

But despite all that....Now I want to re-read a lot more of my childhood books!

The House of Hades, Rick Riordan

Book 4......

I am starting to like the split narrative thing a lot-getting everyone's perspective. This was a great read. Things I liked:

You don't have to give in to you were, you can choose a new course of life.

Friends are usually what gets you through hard times.

A little understanding goes a long way.

Pride is a fatal flaw for most of Riordan's immortals. Exploit this, and you can win.

Miracles can happen.


Something that I'm interested to see play out is the reveal of a God who admitted to falling in love with a man. And even further, the reveal of a character to have same-gender attraction. I'm anxious to see how it plays out. Personally, in my belief system, there is nothing inherently wrong with a person if they feel that way, but in my belief system, acting on those feelings is considered immoral. Book 5 comes out this fall, so we'll see how things play out!

Riding the Bus with My Sister, Rachel Simon

Funny story. I really like the TV show The Gilmore Girls. I have a goal to someday at least ATTEMPT to read every book mentioned in the 7 year series. Which is no small task given that the character of Rory Gilmore LOVES to read and LOVES the classics. They also have about a billion pop culture references per episode and when those things pop out at me and they don't violate my own personal moral code (for instance, I don't watch R rated movies, so when they mention those movies, I don't track them down to watch). There is one episode with Lorelai Gilmore is attempting to get rid of some of her old VHS tapes of shows she taped back in the day or movies that were on TV. She insists that she needs to keep them for the original commercials shown at the time of original air date (which I do admit that I can sympathize with this idea, we have some old taped from TV VHS at my parents and when we forgot to pause the recording during the commercials, seeing those old commercials totally throws me back!). She has had a falling out with her daughter Rory and they are estranged and have been for months. She finds this movie of "Riding the Bus with My Sister" and gives a mocking review of the plot to Luke, her fiance. I thought to myself, I wonder if that is a movie that I could watch and mock and feel like a Gilmore Girl? Just for kicks. So I look it up, find out it was made by Hallmark, so it'll be appropriate, but more than that, I find out that it's a BOOK that has pretty high reviews. Being the purist I am, I HAVE to read the book before searching for the movie. And interestingly enough, the end of the episode is of Lorelai watching the movie alone-a movie she normally would have watched with her daughter to bond over mocking, and Riding the Bus with My Sister is a story of two sisters who don't understand one another and it's a little juxtaposition of Lorelai's situation. But that's how I even became aware that this book existed.

Riding the Bus with My Sister is a memoir. But it reads like a novel. It does help that the author is actually a writer and not just a person writing a memoir as some books tend to be a bit sluggish when not written by a true author. Rachel is the narrator,  and Irish twin with her younger (by 11 months if you haven't heard the term Irish twins) sister, Beth who is mildly mentally retarded. The story is told in alternating "current" time as well as childhood flashbacks, which are really helpful in painting the whole picture. 

I can identify with the author somewhat. I have a sister who as a disorder that wasn't even diagnosable back when we were kids, so I was always being asked questions about her that I never could answer, which Rachel has happen to her throughout her childhood too. And she struggles with truly understanding her sister, which is a challenge I face. Especially when you're fighting within yourself what you WANT to be doing and what you actually END UP doing, which are sometimes the same and sometimes not. And when they're not, all the feelings of failure to do what you intended to do and not knowing why you didn't follow through.

She also addresses societal issues, such as the fact that Beth is technically capable of working, what we'd consider "contributing to society" as opposed to being a "drain" on society, but chooses not to. And in the world at the time, and possibly still, there is a movement about self-determination, how we cannot (and should not) force a person to do anything they don't want to do. For instance, Beth does NOT like to eat healthy food, and she doesn't have to. She doesn't want to work, she doesn't have to. It doesn't help that if she even makes a tiny bit of money,  her SSI decreases by the amount she makes, so it doesn't matter if she works or not, she'll have the same amount to live on, unless by some miracle she obtained a job that would pay her more than her SSI would be. So in this light, why shouldn't she do whatever makes her the happiest? She's fairly independent living on her own with enough skills to take care of herself hygienically and at least enough food to sustain her regardless of its health benefits or lack thereof. But there are many people who just don't understand why Beth chooses to spend the time in the way she does-riding busses around the city from dawn (or earlier) to dusk 6 days a week. She has acute observations of people and the world around her, but really doesn't care what people think or say about her. Her confidence level is really quite astounding. 

There is one scenario where Beth needs eye surgery. She has fought surgery for so long, that one of her conditions is irreparable, but a secondary condition is making things worse and can be reversed with surgery. So one of the amazing bus drivers who not only tolerates Beth but is friendly with her volunteers to drive Rachel and Beth to the hospital on his day off, stays through the surgery, drives them back to Beth's apartment and THEN after Rachel takes care of her for the required 2 days, has Beth come stay at his house so he and his wife can care for her an extra "just in case day" longer. Rachel then says "During these two days, I learn, on the phone with Olivia [one of the members of Beth's care team], that this is how it's supposed to work. The system that supports independent living relies on it: the cultivation of friends in the community, who will, out of kindness and generosity, help out. Fortunately-amazingly-Beth has such friends, especially in Jacob [the bus driver who took her in]. But it seems like a lot to ask, in this selfish, materialistic, inflexible world of ours, where so many of us are rocketing single-mindedly toward some personal vision of happiness." I think that's the heart of it all-EVERYTHING that is a support for anyone, shouldn't be the end all. Us, PEOPLE, should-out of kindness and generosity-be helping other PEOPLE. We shouldn't say, "Oh, we'll just pay more in taxes to help those people out" and be proud that our tax money goes to help the poor, because honestly, do we truly trust government enough to give ALL they get to where it's supposed to go? And how removed is that? How rewarding is it to have a deduction on your paystub and think "well, I sure hope this is going to the right place" vs. actually helping someone in a tangible, I can see and hear and touch you right now way. I am sure that Jacob and his wife were edified in a way that even a generous donation to a cause cannot edify. We're so busy that we'd let a check take care of what our time should.

Another inner conflict Rachel continues to have is that of trying to decode Beth from her disability. WHY does Beth act a certain way? Is it because she CAN'T do something or WON'T? How much is the disability and how much is her stubborn personality? Can you separate the two? Not really....at least not in this situation. Which got me to thinking about other challenges, like ADD/ADHD, and trying to get people to be honest with themselves, how much is the condition causing me to lose control and how much is my unwillingness to try to combat the symptoms? For me, I had Post Partum Depression really bad after both my daughters were born. With my first, it blind-sided me completely. I had to determine how much of my depression was the chemical imbalance happening in my brain and how much was me not choosing to be happy. In my case, I determined that my chemical imbalances were robbing me of my ability to choose happiness and therefore sought counseling and when that wasn't enough, medication to go along with it. And because many of these disorders are spectrum, everyone has to be completely honest with themselves about their abilities, but that's also the problem. Only and individual can know their abilities and limitations, the rest of us can only take their word for it. 

I'd like to end by returning to a reflection Rachel gives at the beginning of the book on page 7 "In the course of my life, cars and trains and jets have whisked me to wherever I wanted to go, and I was going places, I thought; I was racing my way to becoming a Somebody. A Somebody who would live a Big Life. What that meant exactly, I wasn't sure. I just knew that I longed to escape the restrictions of what I saw as a small life: friends and a family and a safe, unobjectionable job that would pay me a passably adequate income. Although this packages encompassed just the kind of existence many people I knew were utterly content with, I wanted something more. Then in the winter of my thirty-ninth year, I boarded a bus with my sister and discovered that I wanted broader and deeper rewards than those I would find in the Big Life."

Here's a picture of Beth and Rachel

And in 2005 Hallmark made this story into a movie starring Rosie O'Donnell as Beth and Andie MacDowell as Rachel (not bad for type casting, eh?). I haven't seen it yet, and it doesn't have very good reviews (4 out of 10 on IMDB) and I've read that Rosie was criticized for overacting the mental retardation, but I am going to track this down, watch it myself and make my own decision. It could just happen to be that in order to appreciate it you had to of read the book, since the cadence and stress of Beth's speech is typed out so you can hear in your head how it would come out. And no, I will not be mocking it like a Gilmore Girl, but appreciating the story and all the lessons about life I learned.

Fablehaven, Brandon Mull

I am reading this series for the first time reading aloud to my 3rd grader. I have heard fabulous things about this series, although it was kind of slow for me. But then, the first couple Harry Potter books were slow for me too when I first started. So I'm not going to judge them as stand alone novels, I'm looking at them as what they'll contribute to the whole.

#1, I like Kendra. Because she is like me, I was and am not much of a rule breaker or bender. I liked how there were absolutely critical positive consequences for her actions of following the rules.

#2 Seth annoys me. Because no matter how many times he SAYS he gets it, I don't believe that he is truly capable of staying out of trouble. His attitude to me is baffling (and continues to baffle me in the second book we are currently reading). However, I do like the portrayal of negative consequences for rule breaking and I also like the fact that some rules are not 100% black and white and that sometimes you have to live the "spirit of the law" instead of the "letter of the law."

#3 I am really, REALLY hoping to get more and more back stories into Grandpa and Grandma Sorenson. I know one story is revealed in book 2, which I found extremely interesting and I hope I keep learning more!

#4 I like the more traditional, less Disney-esque portrayal of magical creatures. I like that it makes my daughter think that not all ideas of Fairies are identical. There's Disney fairies, Harry Potter's pixies, and Fabelhaven's Fairies and Imps and they all act differently. I think it helps her to open her mind more to exploring the different dimensions of not only fantastical creatures but people as well. At least I hope so...

The Mark of Athena, Rick Riordan

Book 3

Again, a nice fun team work story. I love how much more the Roman/Greek divide is dissolving among the 7 questers. I have high hopes for the divide to dissolve on a much larger scale once Gaea is defeated. Because let's face it, Rick Riordan finds a way for his heroes to succeed. Even when they probably shouldn't, they do. Classic!

I especially liked learning more of Hazel's past history, more into Leo's identity, and getting inside Annabeth's head more. From Percy's perspective, she's always been super confident and sure of herself with solutions to anything given enough time to figure it out. But as always, what we show to people is not usually what's going on inside. Annabeth had a LOT more self doubt that I would have suspected. But it makes total sense. I once got a teacher of the year nomination essay that mentioned that I was always happy and cheerful. I read that and though, "I am? I don't FEEL like I'm happy all the time, but if that's what the students are seeing, I'm at least portraying it right!" And to have the revelation that she feels like all of her comrades have special powers (Jason-controlling air, lighting, Percy-water, Hazel-the ground, Frank-shape shifting, Leo-generating fire, Piper-charmspeak) and she has nothing special. Her talent for having wisdom and knowing how to find and exploit the weaknesses of her enemies is quite impressive to me. But then, everyone else's strong points are impressive to me, usually because their STRONG points are my WEAK points. Which is why we can't compare ourselves to others and be confident in our own abilities, just like Annabeth does. She decides that she KNOWS her strength and to USE it to the best of her ability. And that's my favorite lesson out of this particular book :-)

The Son of Neptune, Rick Riordan

Book 2 in the Heroes of Olympus. Finally, Percy is back in the picture. He has been sleeping for 8 months, under the spell of Juno (Hera) to be taken and plopped down at the Wolf House to be trained up and go to the camp for Roman demigods; Camp Jupiter. It is VERY different from Camp-Half Blood. Where Greek demigods are told they would be lucky to reach adulthood, Camp Jupiter is home to retired warriors who have since gone to college, gotten married, had families. Not all of the warriors are demigods either-sometimes they are descendants of a demigod. Percy finds it mind boggling and very appealing. Of course, his memory had been erased as well, just like Jason's, but some things are more clear to him from the get go, such as remembering Annabeth and that she is his girlfriend. He meets two unlikely heroes (I love the underdogs in Riordan's books) in Frank and Hazel who both harbor secrets they are scared to share.

The catastrophe of this book is that Thanatos (Death) has been chained and is no longer able to keep souls from returning to Earth once dead. This includes monsters. Where they used to dissolve and not come back for at least a few weeks, now they materialize almost instantly as soon as they disintegrate. In addition to that, the Doors of Death (which will be the quest of Book 3) have been opened and are being guarded by Gaea, who prohibits anyone who would help the cause of the Gods to come through and only allows the souls of evil spirits to have another chance at life-in the service of Gaea of course.

On their quest together, Percy, Frank and Hazel find a harpy named Ella who has this amazing ability to read at an insanely fast pace and retain ALL the knowledge AND understand what she's read. She's really a very valuable friend and asset. I think she will have a role to play in future novels.

In this book you realize just how bad the rift between the Roman and Greek demigods is, although I still don't quite understand WHY. But the root of it is way back when the Greeks tricked the Romans, we're talking Trojan Horse way back. And they STILL won't get over it.

You also are introduced to another group, Amazons. Yes, the warrior women of South America, only they have moved (much like the Gods of Olympus move to wherever the world's power is) to Seattle. And they run Amazon.com. How funny is that? I know that some of Riordan's humor is kind of lame, but it DOES make me chuckle and I know that my 8 year old would find it hilarious. Which shows Riordan knows his audience's funny bone. That tween age is FULL of cheesy lame humor.

More friendship, adventure, page turning fun. And it was extra fun to have Percy, Frank and Hazel travel up the west coast and into Portland, OR via the Columbia and Willamette Rivers, which is near where I grew up and walk down Glisan St. which I've been on myself, incidentally. Makes me want to go back and picture the scene from the book now :-) I love when author's put real places into their stories.

The Lost Hero, Rick Riordan

Book 1 in the Heroes of Olyumpus series, a continuation of the Percy Jackson series. In this book, Riordan introduces the Greek Gods in their Roman aspect. Some have different names, they all have a different personalities.

Along with their different aspects, their children are also either Roman or Greek. Before this, we were rather unaware of Roman Demigods. Jason Grace is the newest demigod and is a son of Jupiter (Zeus) who has had his memory erased. He ends up in Camp Half Blood with two new Greek demigods, Piper and Leo and going on a quest with them. Then his memory slowly is given back to him. The last battle of the Percy Jackson series put the Titan king Kronos back to Tartarus, but unfortunatley, Gaea (mother earth) is not the friendly caring being we tend to think of her as in Western culture. She is the most evil of them all. Mother of the Titans, Mother to the giants she wants to help her wake fully so she can eradicate every living creature and start fresh with her tyrannical reign of power. This would mean an end to the Gods. And unfortunately, Jupiter/Zeus is very prideful. Only a demigod and God working together can overcome such enemies. But the Gods would never admit that they NEED their demigod children. Oh, and Percy has gone missing from Camp Half-Blood. Just disappeared in the night, around the same time Jason Grace turned up at the Wilderness School Piper and Leo were attending when they got picked up and taken to camp Half-Blood.

Another fun page flipping tale of mythological creatures, friendship, bravery, and loyalty.