Wednesday, August 6, 2014
Where She Went, Gayle Forman
Super fast, easy read. Still a bit more swearing than I'm usually comfortable with. I still don't care how "authentic" it made it or not, it's just not my taste.
This one is entirely from Adam's perspective. It took me awhile to get into it, since I had JUST read Mia's voice, I didn't feel like Adam's voice was completely distinct. It was interesting to have a guy protagonist who was completely torn apart by the fact that his girlfriend almost dies, stays by her side every step of the way to rehab to get to Juilliard on time, to be completely dropped without rhyme or reason. What gives? You spend most of the book incredibly angry at Mia, but feeling like you have no right to be angry at her given her circumstance. Which is exactly how Adam feels. So there's a good authentic emotional vibe going on.
Luckily, Forman likes to give you answers. Even though you have to wait, you DO get answers. And you DO get closure. I like how she explored the seriousness and the benefits of closure. Sometimes when things don't end up as we hoped or planned, we can come to accept them if we have a little understanding of what went wrong. It's all that "what if" and not being able to wrap your mind around things. If you know what went wrong, maybe you could fix it! But if no one explains, you don't get that chance. And it's frustrating. She also explores the pressure of being famous. The ugly side of being the one showing up in tabloids. Kinda makes you feel a little more sympathetic. And yeah, they chose that life and they knew that their life and a bunch of lies about it were going to get smeared all over. But we should remember that underneath it all, they ARE still people. And people, generally speaking, still have feelings. Even if I had everything I could ever need or want, I doubt it'd make up for being mocked or made fun of all the time.
Anyway, I personally appreciated the fact that this BOOK had good closure to it. And it was definitely entertaining. 3.5 out of 5 stars.
Saturday, August 2, 2014
If I Stay, Gayle Forman
Hmm. I think around 3.5 ish starts of 5 is my assessment.
My copy of the book from the library had on the back a picture of the book's sequel. Talk about a spoiler alert! I don't know if the author ever wanted you to really question whether or not Mia (the protagonist) would choose to stay or not. Dialog in the book suggests that Mia seriously thinks she's just going to let go and not stay, but with Mia plastered on the sequel's cover looking very much alive, it really takes out all the guess work. So I suppose it could have been more suspenseful as well.
Then there was the writing style. It felt really young. I'm not usually one to be picky about writing style, but in some ways it just felt young, immature. But I can give the benefit of the doubt that because it was from a teenager's point of view, it should SOUND like a teenager. And it did.
The story was heartfelt enough, but I did not enjoy the casual use of the "f" word. I get that this is how a LOT of teens talk, this IS their normal casual language. But even JK Rowling was able to add LOT more "swearing" to the Harry Potter series without spelling them out aka "he swore under his breath". The other part I didn't enjoy was (and I get that this is the norm too, I just don't agree with it and therefore it tainted my experience reading the book) the permissiveness of Mia's parents with everything. The minute she gets her first boyfriend, her mom is telling her that they'll go get birth control from Planned Parenthood and gives her a box of condoms to start out with. This is before she is even intimate with the guy-or is even thinking about it! AND he sleeps over. In her room. At her house where she lives with her parents. Does this really happen a lot? Is this really normal? Is it really THAT naive to think that one can have a relationship with someone that does NOT involve sex? Especially as a teenager. Her mom even mentions that 17 is a really inconvenient time to fall in love, since her boyfriend, Adam is in a band that is getting really successful and she's hoping to go to Juilliard which is across the country. And the book both in text AND in the readers guide suggest how mature of a couple Adam and Mia are, how they aren't the typical "high school" couple. Which is true in some sense, they don't fight about petty things or have jealousy issues. They look at life and people in a more mature way. But wouldn't it be mature to think about your future, think about what the emotional repercussions would be if they took their relationship to a certain physical level only to be separated for long periods of time physically by distance? It seems to tear both of them up that they might be apart from each other, neither one wanting the other to give up their dreams and I just feel it might not have been so bad had they had a more casual, less physical relationship. Especially in high school. I don't like that so many YA books these days give teens the expectation that relationships = sex, especially if you are going to be "mature" about your relationship. I get that it happens. I don't agree with it, and I know there are many kids out there who choose to be virgins through high school and have great relationships regardless. I just don't want kids who haven't made a true inward exploration of what they believe to be right for themselves to have this type of expectation plugged into their mindset. I feel it disturbs their ability to truly sort out what THEY need instead of what they feel they "should" do if they want to be "normal".
Some things I enjoyed a lot were: this story takes place in rural Oregon and Portland, which I frequented as I grew up. It's always nice to read about places that I've actually been to and I can have a great mental image of. Also, Mia is a classical musician, a cellist. While I'm not a string player, I am a classical musician (flute) so I could understand quite a bit of Mia and how she feels she is perceived and her connection to music. I absolutely LOVED the role that classical music played in her recovery. Elizabeth Smart attributes playing the harp as a classical musician to her psychological recover from her 9 month abduction period. Mia had traumatic brain injuries from a car wreck, which involved physical as well as psychological injuries and having her play her cello strengthened every one of her weaknesses. I love her relationship with her family and her grandparents and the friends who serve as extended family. I love her dedication to something she loves, even if it's "dorky".
I'll probably watch the movie adaptation, when it comes out on redbox and I have a code. They already changed one significant thing-Adam doesn't write her a song! He begs her to NOT make him write a song for her. (He's not good at the sappy love song thing, he claims she'd have to cheat on him or something in order for him to write a song about her). But it looks like they do a pretty good job, considering the story starts in the now and then Mia has this out of body experience and her life story is told in flashbacks. Chloe Grace Moretz is playing Mia and I'm absolutely thrilled that she decided to learn to play the cello in real life for this role. However, as a classical musician, I can tell you there is no way on Earth she will be doing the real playing for the Juilliard Audition segment. You can't get THAT crazy good in a year. I absolutely believe she will truly play some for real, but I'm fairly familiar with several of the pieces Mia mentions she's learning and playing and the audition list, as Forman mentions, was taken straight off their website for required audition material. And that stuff ain't easy. I looked at the flute requirements. Yeah. I could NOT have done that out of high school. Only slight possibility of doing that AFTER a college education and that would only get me to do a bachelor's all over again....lol. But I do appreciate SO much that Chloe WILL look the part and have proper technique and vibrato and all of those things. And FINALLY an actress who really is the same age as the person she is portraying. That goes a LONG way in believability for me.
There was a sneak peak at the sequel, which looks like it's either all from Adam's perspective, but perhaps a split narrative will happen? Based on the teaser, you know she does leave for NY and Juilliard and also doesn't do the long distance relationship with Adam, which absolutely kills him. Even though he told her that he could handle losing her that way if he didn't have to lose her to death. It was HIS idea to play cello music to her through headphones that jolts her back, finally, out of her coma and back to life. HE is the one who brings Mia her cello the instant she asks for it to play that aids in her faster than expected recovery. I just can't really understand why after all this, Mia would purposefully put a wedge between them when in today's day and age of technology it makes having a long distance relationship easier-and more affordable-than ever! I used to save baby-sitting and piano teaching money to put money on my phone card to call my long distance boyfriend because it was expensive! Now for the price you are already paying for internet, you can video chat! But I'm sure it's just Mia's messed up view of herself and her worthiness of Adam and not wanting to hold him back or something (I guess it's a messed up complex similar to Bella Swan in Twilight). But only time will tell. And yes, I'm a sucker for knowing what happens, and since the swearing wasn't nearly as bad as that Rowling book "A Casual Vacancy" I think I'll read the sequel. Which just so happens to be on the shelf at my local library branch. Guess I know where I'll be Monday morning when it opens!
Wednesday, July 30, 2014
Lord of the Flies, William Golding
I know this book has many different cover arts. This reflects the one I read. Also, I will not be reviewing the movie adaptation since it is rated R and aside from that, I'm not sure I need a visual more than what my imagination has already come up with. Although looking at pictures from the movie, the actor playing Ralph was a doppleganger of my imagination for sure!
Well, this is definitely a confusing bit of literature. But
it was written in the 1950’s where, as I’ve have internet “conversations”, the
point of literature and what the audience of the time wanted and demanded could
have been very different from today. For me, I felt like there were WAAAAY too
many unanswered questions, details just completely left out, like the character
of “Piggy” we never find out his real name.
It starts out as what seems to be an island adventure story
of a bunch of boys, “littluns” who are around the age lf 6, and “bigguns” who
are closer to 12 ish. Our main protagonist, Ralph gets elected Chief because he
found a Conch shell and Piggy shows him how to blow it and by so doing, he
brings all of the boys out of the woodworks and seems to be in charge. His
nemesis is Jack, the leader of the choir boys-turned hunters. With no adults,
they are left to their own devices. Ralph wants rules and order and for
everyone to make sure that they keep a fire going because the appearance of
smoke may help them get rescued. Jack and the Hunters just want to hunt the
native pigs for meat and have feasts. As mentioned in a “notes” section at the
end of the copy I read, Ralph represents modern society with laws and order.
Jack represents a lack of those things and the carnal, sensual nature of man
that always balks against rules and order. Piggy, is as the name implies,
overweight, he has asthma and wears glasses. The glasses are important because
they are the only means of starting fire, using them and the sun to get a
spark. He has intelligence and he thinks things through, but no one takes him
seriously, so he unofficially makes himself Ralph’s right hand man. Ralph
eventually realizes the value that Piggy has, but is then subsequently
ridiculed for it. Jack and the hunters use paint to disguise themselves, first
for camouflage to hunt better, but then it becomes a status symbol and also a
way to transform who they are.
With the symbolism in mind, we can see how a lot of people
get made fun of for having common sense. We see how those who listen to those
with common sense are also ostracized. We see leaders who do things with
emotion and fervor, serving what the people want to hear and see. With the
paint, the hunters truly become savages and they become so incensed with it
that death occurs to the innocent. And in the heat of the moment, many of the
boys have a role in this murderous endeavor. It kind of reminded me of the KKK
and how they disguise themselves and how, without that cover, could seem like
decent people, but once they have on their disguise, are given courage to do
horrible, terrible things to other human beings.
I wasn’t incredibly impressed by this book, to be honest. It
was depressing and reminiscent of how I remember feeling at the end of reading
“The Pearl” by John Steinbeck for one of my freshman year of high school
required readings. But the point of these types of book isn’t really
entertainment. These are warning books. These are meant to teach us lessons
about ourselves as a human race. How we need to tame human nature and kick
against the pricks that would have us become carnal, sensual, savage and
without feeling towards one another. We need to be a human race that respects
and reveres a certain level of order based on reason, common sense, human
decency, and a love of mankind. We need to move past childish ways of making
fun or not taking people seriously if they are “socially awkward” or anything
that Piggy represents. We need to value EVERYONE for what they can bring.
Hatred, jealousy, lust for power are all things that drove Jack to become what
he did. A lesser character, Roger, became his wing-man as the only true
sociopathic character who we find was the main person who would torture others.
Truly sadistic. He took power, whereas Ralph had insisted on a vote for
leadership.
We see the fall of the boys’ society when Ralph’s plan
yielded no immediate results. Yet, the minute Jack offered something better-a
taste of meat instead of the dull diet of fruit and water, alliances changed.
And once his true colors showed, the other boys were too afraid of what would
happen to them if they attempted to leave. It’s like the bible story of Jacob
and Esau where Esau gave up everything in order to curb his hunger for a moment.
We need to be weary of politicians and leaders who promise the offer of a quick
solution. Maybe we should look for more honest people who tell us straight up
that their solutions, while they may not LOOK like the right thing at first, or
might hurt us a little more than we are already hurt, are actually better in
the long run. After all, even during the most heinous crime of this book, when
all was said and done, it was only finished when, as Ralph had always said,
smoke was seen.
Some people have tried to draw similarities between Lord of
the Flies and Hunger Games, but I only see VERY loose similarities and that is
children inflicting violence on others….possibly as a form of entertainment.
You get the impression that was what it was for in this book, but it’s never
completely and solidly stated. I mean, in the 50s, how were they to be watched?
So the premise of the two books
and WHY the kids are being violent are completely different and I
believe that the intentions of the books are different and the lessons to be
learned are different. Lord of the Flies felt hopeless, Hunger Games taught
that the only things stronger than fear is hope.
But nonetheless, I did find this article interesting with
some up to date comparisons and studies about human psychology: http://www.shmoop.com/lord-of-the-flies/
Although I must warn that it pretty much sums up the entire
plot synopsis on the second page, so if you want to read it without any idea,
skip page two. The rest goes into more depth with thematic material.
Sky Raiders, Brandon Mull
Wow. Ok. So this was my August book club book. It is book
one in what will be a 6 book series. This is the first series book that I will
start reading right after the first is published and have to wait for the rest
to come out.
I’m having a hard time getting over the premise of Cole, our
protagonist, and his friends getting to this alternate world via kidnapping.
Apparently there is a LOT of magic of some sort going on, since no one will
notice they’re gone. They pretty much fade from existence on Earth. So at least
parents aren’t left completely broken and terrified for their missing kids. I
guess that’s merciful. But I had a hard time because of what is going on in the
world today with kids being kidnapped to be sold into the Sex Slave industry,
which is alive and well in many developed parts of our country and child
prostituting is much more common that anyone would want to admit. It’s
sickening and for some reason I just could not shake that image while reading
this book. I keep waiting for Cole to wake up, maybe he’s in a really
imaginative coma on Earth and this is all happening in his head. I would sure
LOVE for that to happen at the end of the series. Or at least a happy ending
when all kids kidnapped from Earth get returned and no time has passed on Earth
or something like that.
Anyhow, if you get past the kidnapping part, this is a
REALLY suspenseful, action packed adventure full of intrigue, hideouts, magical
abilities, magical weaponry, deceit, betrayal, friendship, loyalty, risks,
quick thinking, and so much more!
Absolutely imaginative. Just when you think you may
understand something about this world, you realize you don’t even begin to know
the half of it.
I am definitely interested to see where this series goes. I
am secretly hoping that all the kids get to go back to Earth and be with their families
and finish living their normal lives.
A Tale of Two Castles, Gail Carson Levine
I did a bunch of fluff reading while visiting my family.
While the kids played with grandparents, I read. I chose easy, entertaining
books for the purpose of collecting reading points for the adult summer reading
program. Hey, the big drawing prize is an iPad, and if I can get an extra
chance, why not?
My 9 year-old daughter got a few new books and when I ran
out of things that sparked my interest, I moved to it. This one was really
nice. Elodie is a young girl of 12 who is taking a boat to Two Castles where
her family has instructed her to apprentice herself to a weaver-a good and
noble trade-for 10 years (because it’s free), when her heart is in mansioning
(acting). During the trip, she learns that the law has done away with all 10
year free apprenticeships and she has no money to pay for even a 7 year
apprenticeship anywhere. She has also been warned that in Two Castles, there is
a king (Greedy Grenny) ruling one castle and an Ogre who rules in the other.
There are also rumored to be dragons in the city as well.
First day there, she sees the Ogre and a Dragon and manages
to get her only large coin stolen by one of the many cats who are there for
protection from the Ogre. Ogres are shape shifters and if there are enough
cats, they can force an ogre to shape shift into a mouse and then devour it.
Through many adventures, Elodie explans her talent of
acting, learns how to think-to induce and deduce and use common sense-and how
to overcome prejudices. Many people feel a certain way toward certain beings
and refuse to change. But Elodie is not inhibited by previously held
suspicions, and it appears that those inhibitions are limited to those who have
been brought up in Two Castles. Others elsewhere are much more open-minded to
allow time for explanations and rational thought before making a judgment call.
Plenty of twists and turns, suspects who are guilty-or not!
Plenty of suspense could be found
as well. I really enjoyed this book for middle readers.
Wednesday, June 11, 2014
The Book Thief, Markus Zusak
Oh wow. Where to begin? I give 5 stars to this book. It was beautiful and tragic. How can it be both? So many things in life-and death-are both.
This book is Historical Fiction (I love this genre!) set in WWII Germany. The narrator is Death. His tone is (as you find out through some Q&A with the author) perfect. At first, Death as narrator didn't work, but then Zusak came back to him and changed some things and made it perfect. Death must come to collect souls, release them from their bodies and carry them to wherever he takes them (it is left to the imagination, insert your own belief system here, I suppose). He is tired. He is over worked. Especially during a war. Why do humans do this much killing of each other? But every once in awhile, he notices someone living. And the person of special interest to him is Liesel Meminger, a young girl of 9 at the opening of the book, who is acquainted with death. We don't know Liesel's father, but her mother has given her to foster care, we don't really know exactly why, but it is inferred that her mother wasn't part of the right political party at the time, and therefore viewed herself as a direct threat to the safety of her children. So the story unfolds as Liesel begins life with some foster parents on Himmel St. in Molching, Germany. Hans and Rosa. They have 2 grown children of their own. They are Christian (as is Liesel). Which isn't condemned but certainly not entirely safe to be either.
Theirs is the story of people in Germany who did NOT buy into what Hitler said. They didn't believe that Jews were a scourge. They show you the impoverished state of the people of Germany under Hitler's rule. His country was falling apart from the inside out as he touted the German Ideal. As a line in the movie "Captain America" states "People forget that first country the Nazi's invaded was their own." You had to "apply" to become a member of the Nazi party and sometimes they denied you because they thought you were too sympathetic to the Jews. Or they left your application pending indefinitely. And you really couldn't get much work if you weren't a member of the party. And then there was hiding Jews.......
In the Q&A section at the back with the author, this exchange was made:
Q: There are many novels set during the Holocaust, but The Book Thief offers a different perspective. What do you most want teenage readers to understand about Liesel's story and this dark period in our world's history?
A: I honestly just hope that they'll never forget the characters. This is the first time I've ever missed characters that I've written-especially Liesel and Rudy. I also hope that readers of any age will see another side of Nazi Germany, where certain people did hide their Jewish friends to save their lives (at the risk of their own). I wanted them to see people who were unwilling to fly the Nazi flag, and boys and girls who thought the Hitler Youth was boring and ridiculous. If nothing else, there's another side that lives beneath the propaganda reels that are still so effective decades later. Those were the pockets I was interested in.
And let me tell you how refreshing it was to read more of this side. I've read Corrie Ten Boom's story (and reviewed it on here) she and her family were also Christian's who hid their Jewish friends and ended up being sent to concentrations camps because of it. But this was another part of it entirely. This was the part of the citizenship that suffered at Hitler's hand not necessarily because of their offenses (although the minor infractions were punished severely), but because they weren't compliant enough. It gives me hope to know that not EVERYONE was duped by Hitler. Even some of the children and youth were able to see through the facade.
At several points, there are stories within stories, and one such describes the power of words:
There was once a strange, small man. He decided three important details about his life:
1. He would part his hair on the opposite side to everyone else
2. He would make himself a small, strange mustache
3. He would one day rule the world
The young man wandered around for quite some time, thinking, planning, and figuring out exactly how to make the world his. Then one day, out of nowhere, it struck him-the perfect plan. He'd seen a mother walking with her child. At one point, she admonished the small boy, until finally, he began to cry. Within a few minutes, she spoke very softly to him, after which he was soothed and even smiled.
The young man rushed to the woman and embraced her. "Words!" He grinned. "What?" But there was no reply. He was already gone.
Yes, the Fuhrer decided that he would rule the world with words. "I will never fire a gun," he devised. "I will not have to." Still, he was not rash. Let's allow him at least that much. He was not a stupid man at all. His first plan of attack was to plant the words in as many areas of his homeland as possible.
He planted them day and night, and cultivated them.
He watched them grow, until eventually, great forests of words had risen throughout Germany....It was a nation of farmed thoughts.
While the words were growing, our young Fuhrer also planted seeds to create symbols, and these, too, were well on their way to full boom. Now the time had come. The Fuhrer was ready.
He invited his people toward his own glorious heart, beckoning them with his finest, ugliest words, handpicked from his forests. And the people came.
They were all placed on a conveyor belt and run through a rampant machine that gave them a lifetime in ten minutes. Words were fed to them. Time disappeared and they now knew everything they needed to know. They were hypnotized.
I hope I never live to see the day when something like this happens again. However, I worry that people get so desperate to hear the words they want to hear that they will believe them, no matter how irrational they may be. That we won't care if they are lies because they sound good. I guess from this we learn that "The pen is mightier than the sword" in some cases. Words can hurt more than sticks and stones-both psychologically and physically (in the case of Nazi Germany). We must use our words for good. Especially words of reason. Don't get sucked in to propaganda from any political spectrum. Never stop thinking for yourself or questioning or voicing your opinion-and being willing to change your opinion should rational information be presented to challenge it. If there ever comes a time when reasonable, rational words start to be ridiculed, beware.
Friday, June 6, 2014
The Five Love Languages of Children, Gary Chapman & Ross Campell, M.D.
A friend of mine told me about this book not long ago and I put it on hold at the library. I haven't read the original one, but remembered hearing a lot about it and doing a quiz to find mine (but I had forgotten).
I cheated and had my 9 year old take the quiz on their website: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
But let's be honest, it's a lot easier for you to determine your own love language and then tell others about it than it is to decipher it out for your own. My 3 year old is too young to determine; that comes around age 5 or 6 or so. So I took the quiz and had my husband take it as well.
I feel like I learned a lot about myself and why I react the way I do (inwardly mostly) to certain things or the lack of certain things. I am overwhelmingly "Quality Time". This explains why I always just KNEW I didn't need a guy who would buy me things (incidentally, when faced with getting a gift or giving up one of the OTHER love languages, I always ignored the gift, so I scored 0 there. Don't get me wrong, I love to get gifts, but if doing so means I have to give up something else, I don't want it!), but that I always knew I needed a guy who would BE there. I couldn't be married to a businessman who was required to travel a lot. That just doesn't compute with my quality time need :-) It also explained to me why I feel so compelled to make sure that my kids have quality time with their grandparents, even it it might sometimes mean that we visit them instead of going somewhere else on vacation (someday our ability to do BOTH will emerge, but not for awhile); because by giving them time with their grandkids, I am expressing love in the deepest way I feel it. And it also explains to me why I sometimes feel hurt if people (friends and family alike) don't make time for me. While it's not an affront to me or their lack of care for me, because it's my primary love language, I tend to internalize it personally. Knowing this helps me to be aware that those hurt feelings are mine and mine alone and hat I can't be angry with others or assume they don't care. They just express their thoughtfulness in other ways and I can totally accept that! In short, it kind of explained to me why people don't always think the same way I do, lol.
My husband is Acts of Service and my 9 year old Words of Affirmation. Light bulb moments GALORE. It definitely isn't going to be a super easy adjustment, but knowing this and the other things mentioned in the book (discipline, how to teach kids how to manage anger in order to prevent passive/aggressive behavioral patterns), hopefully my family will be able to express love in more meaningful ways to each other.
I cheated and had my 9 year old take the quiz on their website: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
But let's be honest, it's a lot easier for you to determine your own love language and then tell others about it than it is to decipher it out for your own. My 3 year old is too young to determine; that comes around age 5 or 6 or so. So I took the quiz and had my husband take it as well.
I feel like I learned a lot about myself and why I react the way I do (inwardly mostly) to certain things or the lack of certain things. I am overwhelmingly "Quality Time". This explains why I always just KNEW I didn't need a guy who would buy me things (incidentally, when faced with getting a gift or giving up one of the OTHER love languages, I always ignored the gift, so I scored 0 there. Don't get me wrong, I love to get gifts, but if doing so means I have to give up something else, I don't want it!), but that I always knew I needed a guy who would BE there. I couldn't be married to a businessman who was required to travel a lot. That just doesn't compute with my quality time need :-) It also explained to me why I feel so compelled to make sure that my kids have quality time with their grandparents, even it it might sometimes mean that we visit them instead of going somewhere else on vacation (someday our ability to do BOTH will emerge, but not for awhile); because by giving them time with their grandkids, I am expressing love in the deepest way I feel it. And it also explains to me why I sometimes feel hurt if people (friends and family alike) don't make time for me. While it's not an affront to me or their lack of care for me, because it's my primary love language, I tend to internalize it personally. Knowing this helps me to be aware that those hurt feelings are mine and mine alone and hat I can't be angry with others or assume they don't care. They just express their thoughtfulness in other ways and I can totally accept that! In short, it kind of explained to me why people don't always think the same way I do, lol.
My husband is Acts of Service and my 9 year old Words of Affirmation. Light bulb moments GALORE. It definitely isn't going to be a super easy adjustment, but knowing this and the other things mentioned in the book (discipline, how to teach kids how to manage anger in order to prevent passive/aggressive behavioral patterns), hopefully my family will be able to express love in more meaningful ways to each other.
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